{"id":128,"date":"2021-12-25T23:37:37","date_gmt":"2021-12-25T22:37:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/?p=128"},"modified":"2021-12-25T23:54:56","modified_gmt":"2021-12-25T22:54:56","slug":"patek-24-prosince-2021","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/?p=128","title":{"rendered":"<strong>P\u00e1tek 24. prosince 2021<\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>J\u00e1 teda nev\u00edm, ale k&nbsp;\u010demu je dobr\u00fd \u0160t\u011bdr\u00fd den pro ateisty? K&nbsp;tomu se po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b na\u017erat, d\u00e1t si d\u00e1rky, ozdobit stromek, zap\u00e1lit sv\u00ed\u010dky? Fajn, to v\u0161e mohu s&nbsp;trochou dobr\u00e9 v\u016fle ud\u011blat kdykoliv. K&nbsp;tomu, aby na sebe lidi byli mil\u00ed, hodn\u00ed, vl\u00eddn\u00ed\u2026? A to nejde ostatn\u00ed dny v&nbsp;roce? Je k&nbsp;tomu pot\u0159eba jeden uniformn\u00ed den, kdy v\u0161ichni nev\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed d\u011bl\u00e1me to, co ostatn\u00ed a v\u011bt\u0161ina z&nbsp;n\u00e1s vlastn\u011b netu\u0161\u00ed prap\u016fvod, d\u016fvod, pro\u010d se tak d\u011bje? Ano, v\u0161ichni, v\u011bt\u0161ina z&nbsp;n\u00e1s, m\u00e1 n\u011bjako pov\u011bdom\u00ed o tom, co se na \u0161t\u011bdr\u00fd den \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, slav\u00ed, d\u011bl\u00e1, ned\u011bl\u00e1, m\u00e1 se j\u00edst, nem\u00e1 se j\u00edst, m\u00e1 se chodit\/do kostela\/, nem\u00e1 se chodit\u2026.ale uv\u011bdomme si, co tomu p\u0159edch\u00e1z\u00ed? Dva m\u011bs\u00edce obchodn\u00edho, doru\u010dovac\u00edho, byznys \u0161\u00edlenstv\u00ed v&nbsp;z\u00e1jmu \u201eJe\u017e\u00ed\u0161ka\u201c, aby pak p\u0159i\u0161el jedin\u00fd den v&nbsp;roce, kdy se maj\u00ed v\u011bci d\u00edt tak, jak se v\u011bci maj\u00ed d\u00edt. Co kdy\u017e se tak ned\u011bje? A ono se tak v\u011bt\u0161inou opravdu ned\u011bje, co si budem\u00b4 pov\u00eddat. O to v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed d\u016fvod je to potom k&nbsp;deziluz\u00edm, zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, nenapln\u011bn\u00e9mu o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed dokonalosti, kter\u00e9 nen\u00ed, neexistuje, o to m\u00ed\u0148 v&nbsp;lidsk\u00fdch \u017eivotech, proto\u017ee jednou ze dvou stoprocentn\u00edch \u017eivotn\u00edch jistot je zm\u011bna. Zm\u011bna je i to, \u017ee se v\u011bci ned\u011bj\u00ed, jak bychom si je p\u0159edstavovali. O to m\u00ed\u0148 jeden jedin\u00fd den, do kter\u00e9ho n\u011bkdo vkl\u00e1d\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a nad\u011bje, ale up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b, pokud nejste ortodoxn\u00ed v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed a m\u00e1 slova v\u00e1s p\u0159\u00edmo neur\u00e1\u017e\u00ed, tak co se v&nbsp;ten den d\u011bje jin\u00e9ho, ne\u017e byste mohli ud\u011blat sami a sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed v&nbsp;jak\u00fdkoliv jin\u00fd den v&nbsp;roce?? Pro\u010d si nevytvo\u0159it vlastn\u00ed pravidla, kter\u00e1 nejedou v&nbsp;kolej\u00edch \u201em\u00e1 se d\u011blat\u201c, ale v&nbsp;kolej\u00edch\u201c takhle to m\u00e1m j\u00e1, takhle to m\u00e1me my\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>J\u00e1 t\u0159eba, neb\u00fdt dne\u0161n\u00edho dne, nejsem zklaman\u00e1 v\u00edc, ne\u017e bych musela, proto\u017ee bych nebyla podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u00e1 z&nbsp;toho, \u017ee m\u016fj mu\u017e nen\u00ed schopen d\u00e1rek pro m\u011b popsat m\u00fdm jm\u00e9nem, tak\u017ee ho nerozbal\u00edm j\u00e1, ale dcera, kter\u00e1 kouk\u00e1, co za kn\u00ed\u017eku to dostala. Man\u017eel kouk\u00e1, co za kn\u00ed\u017eku to vlastn\u011b zabalil, proto\u017ee v&nbsp;tom obchod\u011b jich vyzvedl kopu, kterou pokl\u00e1dal v\u0161echny za d\u00e1rky pro dceru bez ohledu na to, \u017ee objedn\u00e1vku jsem d\u011blala j\u00e1, stejn\u011b tak jsem u n\u00ed v\u00fdslovn\u011b man\u017eelovi \u0159ekla, \u017ee si tak\u00e9 jednu knihu do online n\u00e1kupn\u00edho ko\u0161\u00edku p\u0159ihod\u00edm. Tak se mi jen potvrdilo, jak dob\u0159e vn\u00edm\u00e1, kdy\u017e mu n\u011bco sd\u011bluji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stejn\u011b tak bych nebyla roz\u010darovan\u00e1, kdy\u017e jsem si rozbalila st\u0159\u00edbrn\u00e9 n\u00e1u\u0161nice, kter\u00e9 jsem si vybrala a kter\u00e9 mi man\u017eel zabalil nezabalil tak, \u017ee je tot\u00e1ln\u011b ohnul. J\u00e1 si p\u0159\u00e1la, aby mi je zabalil, nejen p\u0159edal tak jak je obdr\u017eel od prodava\u010dky, tak\u017ee za jejich ohnut\u00ed jsem vlastn\u011b mohla j\u00e1, nem\u011bla jsem je cht\u00edt zabalen\u00e9, pr\u00fd se to stalo a\u017e p\u0159i jejich zabalen\u00ed. No, dalo se tomu p\u0159edej\u00edt, ale to mu \u0159\u00edkat nebudu. Ohe\u0148 by byl na st\u0159e\u0161e, v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed \u201ev\u00fdznamn\u00fd\u201c den. Nic to nem\u011bn\u00ed ani na tom, \u017ee man\u017eel neosolil kapra, kdy\u017e jej obaloval, i p\u0159esto, \u017ee jsem mu to v\u00fdslovn\u011b \u0159ekla. &#8222;Osolil jsi toho kapra?&#8220; &#8222;Ne, ale osolil jsem vaj\u00ed\u010dko.&#8220; &#8222;To nesta\u010d\u00ed, osol i kapra.&#8220; &#8222;Sta\u010d\u00ed, nebudu to solit, m\u00e1m \u0161pinav\u00fd ruce.&#8220; Osolit vaj\u00ed\u010dko nesta\u010dilo, uznal kdy\u017e ochutn\u00e1val \u0161t\u011bdrove\u010de\u0159i. Dal pod stromek d\u00e1rek, o kter\u00e9m vlastn\u011b  ani nev\u011bd\u011bl, \u017ee byl pro m\u011b, i p\u0159esto, \u017ee jsem si jej vybrala a v\u00fdslovn\u011b mu to \u0159ekla. &#8222;Hele, p\u0159ihod\u00edm si do ko\u0161\u00edku i jednu kn\u00ed\u017eku pro sebe, jo?&#8220; &#8222;Jo.&#8220; &#8220; Pro\u010d jsi na ten d\u00e1rek nenapsal jm\u00e9no? Takhle to rozbalila Renatka a koukala, co to dostala za knihu. To si ani nem\u016f\u017eu rozbalit d\u00e1rek, kter\u00fd jsem si sama vybrala? &#8220;  &#8222;Nem\u011bl jsem po ruce nic na psan\u00ed.&#8220; Odzbrojuj\u00edc\u00ed argument, nebylo co dodat, do\u0161la mi slova. Jmenovky na d\u00e1rku jsem se nedo\u010dkala, cenovky ale ano. N\u00e1u\u0161nice, kter\u00e9 v\u00a0obchod\u011b necht\u011bl zakoupit, proto\u017ee mu p\u0159i\u0161ly ohnut\u00e9, ohnul na jejich opa\u010dn\u00e9m konci tak, \u017ee s\u00a0k\u0159ivic\u00ed by si mohly podat ruku. Banality? Mohly by b\u00fdt, neb\u00fdt p\u0159ehnan\u00fdch o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017ee alespo\u0148 ten jeden den v\u00a0roce by mohl vn\u00edmat, co d\u011bl\u00e1, d\u00e1v\u00e1, vn\u00edmat sv\u011bt, m\u011b. P\u0159ehnan\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, zbyte\u010dn\u00e1 roz\u010darov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mimochodem, \u0161t\u011bdr\u00fd den je dnem, kdy jsem se nejv\u00edce v\u017edy h\u00e1dala doma, s\u00a0rodi\u010di, rodi\u010de spolu, rodina, co si v\u016fbec pamatuju. Pro\u010d? Pr\u00e1v\u011b ta nespln\u011bn\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e1 jsem neum\u011bla je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u201emaskovat\u201c, zpracovat. Zklam\u00e1n\u00ed jako takov\u00e9, lidsk\u00e9, pocit nedostate\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky, porovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A \u017ee by je\u017e\u00ed\u0161ek m\u011bl b\u00fdt hlavn\u011b pro d\u011bti? Tak a\u0165 je! Stejn\u011b tak dob\u0159e by mohl b\u00fdt jejich dnem den jejich narozen\u00ed, den, kter\u00fd je opravdu jejich, jeho v\u00fdznam ch\u00e1pou, mohou si nazdobit cokoliv, dostat d\u00e1rky, m\u00edt oslavu, a nemus\u00ed se pom\u011b\u0159ovat s&nbsp;nik\u00fdm dal\u0161\u00edm, ze sourozenc\u016f, \u010dlen\u016f rodiny, \u017ee on\/ona dostal\/a v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed, dra\u017e\u0161\u00ed, lep\u0161\u00ed d\u00e1rky. On tamhle a on toto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sv\u00e1tky jsou pro m\u011b jedno velk\u00e9 faux-paux, mnoho povyku pro nic. Nic, co by nemohl ud\u011blat jeden pro druh\u00e9ho \u010di pro sebe jak\u00fdkoliv jin\u00fd den v&nbsp;roce, kter\u00fd si s\u00e1m ur\u010d\u00ed jako v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd. \u017de t\u011bch dn\u00ed chce v\u00edc? Fajn, pokud jsou pro n\u011bj v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e9, pro\u010d ne, v\u017edy\u0165 to nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt jeden den, stejn\u011b tak jako to nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd den. A\u0165 jsou v\u0161echny dny v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e9 pr\u00e1v\u011b tak a tolik, jak si to budu zrovna p\u0159\u00e1t, pro sebe, sv\u00e9 bl\u00edzk\u00e9. Proto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd jednotliv\u00fd den je v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd a p\u0159esn\u011b takov\u00fd, jak\u00fd si jej ud\u011bl\u00e1me, nebo se o to alespo\u0148 pokus\u00edme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>J\u00e1 teda nev\u00edm, ale k&nbsp;\u010demu je dobr\u00fd \u0160t\u011bdr\u00fd den pro ateisty? K&nbsp;tomu se po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b na\u017erat, d\u00e1t si d\u00e1rky, ozdobit stromek, zap\u00e1lit sv\u00ed\u010dky? Fajn, to v\u0161e mohu s&nbsp;trochou dobr\u00e9 v\u016fle ud\u011blat kdykoliv. K&nbsp;tomu, aby na sebe lidi byli mil\u00ed, hodn\u00ed, vl\u00eddn\u00ed\u2026? A to nejde ostatn\u00ed dny v&nbsp;roce? Je k&nbsp;tomu pot\u0159eba jeden uniformn\u00ed den, kdy v\u0161ichni nev\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/?p=128\" class=\"more-link\">Pokra\u010dovat ve \u010dten\u00ed<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8222;<strong>P\u00e1tek 24. prosince 2021<\/strong>&#8222;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-128","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=128"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":133,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128\/revisions\/133"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=128"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=128"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=128"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}