{"id":451,"date":"2024-10-02T11:24:22","date_gmt":"2024-10-02T09:24:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/?p=451"},"modified":"2024-10-02T11:44:32","modified_gmt":"2024-10-02T09:44:32","slug":"had-v-puberte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/?p=451","title":{"rendered":"Had, puberta a \u010d\u00edsla\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

(co maj\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9ho…)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sv\u00e9 dce\u0159i ob\u010das \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m \u201ehade\u201c, zcela l\u00e1skypln\u011b, ale opr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u011b. Pro\u010d?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u017edy se mi sna\u017e\u00ed p\u0159ipomenout m\u016fj v\u011bk. Nen\u00ed to nic, co by mi vadilo. Tedy nebylo, do doby, ne\u017e m\u011b na n\u011bj dcera za\u010dala upozor\u0148ovat ve chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy cht\u011bla t\u00edt do \u017eiv\u00e9ho. Nebylo to \u017eiv\u00e9 t\u00e9ma, dokud do n\u011bj neza\u010dala zat\u00ednat sekyrku puberty. \u201eMaminko, letos ti bude XX\u201c \u0159ekla mi ned\u00e1vno. \u201eNo a?\u201c j\u00e1 na to. \u201eAle letos, kdy\u017e si ty \u010d\u00edsla na dortu prohod\u00ed\u0161, tak to vyjde nastejno. U\u017e to nep\u016fjde ud\u011blat jako loni.\u201c pov\u00edd\u00e1 ona a je v tom c\u00edtit jedovat\u00fd dr\u00e1pek. Pro\u010d jsem to loni ud\u011blala? Pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee mi moje dcera slovy: \u201eMaminko, letos u\u017e ti bude XX\u201c za\u010dala p\u0159ipom\u00ednat a zv\u011bdomovat krutou pravdu. Opakovan\u011b, ne\u00fanavn\u011b, a \u0159ekn\u011bme i \u0161kodolib\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010cas je ne\u00faprosn\u00fd. B\u011b\u017e\u00ed, a te\u010f jako by zrychloval. Ve sv\u00fdch n\u00e1cti jsem si myslela, \u017ee mi sv\u011bt le\u017e\u00ed u nohou a jsem nesmrteln\u00e1. Stejn\u011b jako moje dcera, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b,  a stejn\u011b jako v\u011bt\u0161ina n\u00e1ctilet\u00fdch. Myslela jsem si to st\u00e1le je\u0161t\u011b kdy\u017e mi bylo -cet a moje -cet za\u010d\u00ednalo dvojkou. Sv\u011bt byl st\u00e1le m\u016fj, univerzitn\u00ed \u017eivot, i p\u0159esto, \u017ee bych \u0159ekla, \u017ee nebyl p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 divok\u00fd, n\u011bkter\u00e9 ud\u00e1losti m\u00e1m ji\u017e d\u00e1vno p\u0159ekryt\u00e9 st\u00ednem \u010dasu, mo\u017en\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee nebyly p\u0159\u00edli\u0161. Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b, s trojkou na za\u010d\u00e1tku m\u00e9ho v\u011bku jsem se c\u00edtila dost dosp\u011bl\u00e1, velk\u00e1, a pomalu i star\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V dob\u011b, kdy m\u016fj v\u011bk za\u010d\u00ednal \u010dty\u0159kou, sv\u011bt byl v covidu a byl mu nezn\u00e1mou hrozbou. V m\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b p\u0159ibyla hrozba nov\u00e9 \u010d\u00edslice na za\u010d\u00e1tku m\u00e9ho v\u011bku. Nejsp\u00ed\u0161 pr\u00e1v\u011b proto jsem tehdy napsala \u010dl\u00e1nek ve stylu \u010cty\u0159ic\u00edtka je nov\u00e1 t\u0159ic\u00edtka.Pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b, abych nakrmila svoje ego. Ok, \u010dty\u0159ka na za\u010d\u00e1tku byla je\u0161t\u011b \u010derstv\u00e1, ale jak postupn\u011b zraje, panika nar\u016fst\u00e1. Obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 ve chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy si p\u0159e\u010dtu \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, jak \u017eena skokov\u011b zest\u00e1rne ve sv\u00fdch \u010dty\u0159ia\u010dty\u0159iceti. Chci ho vymazat z hlavy, m\u016fj mu\u017e mi jej chce vymazat z hlavy slovy: \u201cPros\u00edmt\u011b, nem\u00e1\u0161 takov\u00e9 v\u011bci \u010d\u00edst.\u201c Ten \u010dl\u00e1nek tam stejn\u011b z\u016fstal, vybavil se mi pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f p\u0159i psan\u00ed tohoto \u010dl\u00e1nku, netu\u0161\u00edm \u017ee tam je\u0161t\u011b byl, ale pam\u011b\u0165 mi o\u010dividn\u011b st\u00e1le dob\u0159e slou\u017e\u00ed, nebo podv\u011bdom\u00ed, mr\u0161ka jedna hadovit\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Podv\u011bdom\u00ed je jako hlas m\u00e9 dcery: \u201eMaminko, a\u017e mi bude dvacet, tob\u011b bude u\u017e pades\u00e1t.\u201c Ta slova blikaj\u00ed \u010derven\u011b, jako v\u00fdstra\u017en\u00fd alarm a upozor\u0148uj\u00ed na fakt, \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f u\u017e jsem pravdpodobn\u011b za polovinou sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota. PADES\u00c1T. PADES\u00c1T. PADES\u00c1T. Red alert. Stav nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00ed pohotovosti. Ohro\u017een\u00ed! Ale \u010d\u00edm? Vr\u00e1skami, bolest\u00ed, beznad\u011bj\u00ed, smrt\u00ed? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Zhluboka se nadechni, v\u011bk je v\u00fdsada, ne hrozba, to si p\u0159ipome\u0148 a nezapome\u0148 p\u0159ipom\u00ednat v\u017edy, kdy\u017e se ozve znovu hadovit\u00fd hl\u00e1sek, a\u0165 u\u017e vych\u00e1z\u00ed z tv\u00e9ho podv\u011bdom\u00ed, nebo okol\u00ed. Up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b, m\u00e9dia a plasti\u010dt\u00ed chirurgov\u00e9 se sv\u00fdmi klienty a klientkami si pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b mysl\u00ed n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho, dle toho co se ve\u0159ejn\u011b serv\u00edruje, ale stejn\u011b tak up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b, nezn\u00e1m kr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed lidi, ne\u017e ty, kte\u0159\u00ed um\u00ed st\u00e1rnout tak\u0159\u00edkaj\u00edc s gr\u00e1ci\u00ed a p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed o sebe. St\u00e1le je pozn\u00e1te. I j\u00e1 se chci pozn\u00e1vat. Vid\u00edte v jejich obli\u010dej\u00edch vr\u00e1sky, a nejen v jejich, a v\u00edte, \u017ee \u017eij\u00ed, a \u017ee toho u\u017e spoustu pro\u017eili, a to je to kr\u00e1sn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 J\u00e1 m\u011bla vr\u00e1sky u\u017e kdy\u017e mi bylo -cet s dvojkou na za\u010d\u00e1tku, byly tam, jem\u0148ou\u010dk\u00e9, a byly tam pr\u00e1vem. V\u017edy\u0165, dvacet let v \u017eivot\u011b jednoho nen\u00ed nezanedbateln\u00fd \u010das. Postupn\u011b jich p\u0159ibylo, p\u0159ib\u00fdv\u00e1, v\u017edy\u0165, u\u017e jsem toho tolik za\u017eila, p\u0159ekonala, poznala, a to v\u0161e, nebo alespo\u0148 \u010d\u00e1st z toho, mohu p\u0159edat sv\u00e9 dce\u0159i, kter\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b nem\u00e1 sv\u00e9 vr\u00e1sky. Nem\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt, zat\u00edm nem\u00e1 tolik \u017eivotn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed, vynalo\u017een\u00e9ho \u00fasil\u00ed, p\u0159ekonan\u00fdch p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eek, vyplakan\u00fdch slz, p\u00e1d\u016f a n\u00e1sledn\u00fdch zveda\u010dek. Nebude muset objevovat objeven\u00e9, bude moci objevovat nov\u00e9, sv\u00e9, a t\u0159eba se i ona v budoucnu pod\u011bl\u00ed. Minim\u00e1ln\u011b se mnou. Svou miluj\u00edc\u00ed m\u00e1mou. O sv\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti a z\u00e1\u017eitky, a\u017e bude m\u00edt sv\u00e9, autentick\u00e9, vr\u00e1sky. D\u011bkuji za ka\u017ed\u00fd den.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

(co maj\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9ho…)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sv\u00e9 dce\u0159i ob\u010das \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m \u201ehade\u201c, zcela l\u00e1skypln\u011b, ale opr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u011b. Pro\u010d? V\u017edy se mi sna\u017e\u00ed p\u0159ipomenout m\u016fj v\u011bk. Nen\u00ed to nic, co by mi vadilo. Tedy nebylo, do doby, ne\u017e m\u011b na n\u011bj dcera za\u010dala upozor\u0148ovat ve chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy cht\u011bla t\u00edt do \u017eiv\u00e9ho. Nebylo to \u017eiv\u00e9 t\u00e9ma, dokud do n\u011bj neza\u010dala zat\u00ednat sekyrku … <\/p>\n

Pokra\u010dovat ve \u010dten\u00ed „Had, puberta a \u010d\u00edsla\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0„<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/451","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=451"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/451\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":458,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/451\/revisions\/458"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=451"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=451"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renataveverkova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=451"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}